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“My partners were totally supportive and into my fascination with boxing gear. One would box with me at the gym and during sex. The other wanted me to be sexually dominant with him while in the gear. He loved to watch me fight as well and we would invite random guys to our summer-house on the beach, but with the agreement they would have to glove up and fight me. The winner got to be sexually dominant with both the opponent and the boyfriend. I had some real all out battles with guys. I even broke a couple of guys noses.”
Anonymous
Sex and Boxing? Well, it is not really a boxing match in the traditional sense. It is the incorporation of boxing gear and sometimes the action that takes place in the boxing ring into one’s fantasies. Numerous porn videos feature a boxing theme with unlimited possibilities to stimulate all sexual, fetish, and erotic interests. For some, boxing fits well into the world of sex. Agonophilia covers a broad range of sexual arousal, from fighting paraphernalia (boxing gloves, protective cups, headgear, boxing trunks, thongs, and fight shoes) through the actual engagement in fighting (legitimate or fantasy). For those who actually fight the arousal is multi-dimensional.
Boxing vs. boxing as porn
Boxing is a competitive sport in which two challengers face-off and apply a number of permitted fighting skills within specific rules and guidelines. A fair contest between boxers is sought, although there are far too many factors to consider which can affect the outcome of a bout. But in boxing as porn it appears the more there is a mismatch or contrast between opponents, the more heightened the erotic experience. Power weighs highly in the formula and a dab of contrast heightens the experience even more. Take for example a bout between:
- Male vs. male
- Female vs. female
- Male vs. female: sex contrast and upended power conquest
- GLBTQ vs. ‘straight’
- Height variations
- Age differences
- Racial/Ethnic/National aspects
- Other factors: amount or no body hair, muscular or no muscles, as examples
- Professions/occupations: A lumberjack versus against a priest, a purported boxer vs. street fighter or other type of fighter, as examples
A real bout or sparring of
Men vs. Women
SEATTLE, UNITED STATES: Boxing referee Ron Rall (C) declares female boxer Margaret MacGregor (R) of Bremerton, WA, the winner by unanimous decision over Loi Chow (L) in their 4-round fight in Seattle October 9, 1999. Billed as First Mixed Gender Sanctioned Fight.
Photo credit DAN LEVINE/AFP via Getty Images
Walker and Langarica competed in the bantamweight championship. In the first round she slammed him to the mat and straddled him, clamping on a chokehold. Langarica thrashed and kicked, finally escaping. The crowd roared for more.
In the second round, Langarica took control. He started landing blows that made Walker wince and then her energy flagged. She leaned against the cage and finally dropped to the mat. She was carried out on a stretcher, her eyes rolled back in her head. “I wanted to be the first female champion on the base,” she said after she was released from the base hospital. “We can be just as tough as the guys. We can do it.”
Army women battle men in cage fighting
…..a real mix of boxing and porn.
Without gear
Consensual sexual activity occurs along a wide spectrum. Virtually anything can be employed to make it a satisfying experience.
Agonophilia covers a broad range of sexual arousal, from fighting paraphernalia (boxing gloves, protective cups, headgear, boxing trunks, thongs, and fight shoes) through the actual engagement in fighting (legitimate or fantasy). For those who actually fight the arousal is multi-dimensional.
As I noted this is not really a boxing match in the traditional sense, but it has all of the appearances and heightened aspects to perceive it to be about boxing, whether one has been inside or outside the ropes. The video scenarios are far too many to show here. But to see your own examples just type boxing sex in your favorite search engine.
Boxing Gear
The gear plays an important part for some. Sometimes it is not the bout scenario as much as the gear which pushes one’s hot button. Leather is still the predominate material for boxing gloves, boots, head guard, and the foul cup because of its durability. It fits well as there is a leather world within the sex world. The boxing uniform parts are transformed from their primary purpose in boxing to a heightened factor in sex.
But I am not naive to know that many “get-off” on the sport, and I found a few sexual partners got really worked-up when they learned I boxed.
Do you remember your first time seeing boxing gloves? Was it an instant turn-on?
No, it wasn’t a big deal sexually because I was five or six and the people boxing were men. Later on, still as a youth, I had powerful dreams starring female boxers just as my sexual hard drive was getting wired.
From
That’s My Fetish: Boxing Gloves
An occasional series about men’s most intimate proclivities
Boxing’s other meaning
The word boxing has other connotations outside of the sport. Boxing, when used in a sexual context, also refers to fucking, in particular anal-fucking, without regard to sexual orientation. I could not find when the word was adopted to include this sexual act. So using the word in a boxing context is important. For example:
- Boxing: I went to my boxing class and worked-up a real sweat today
- In a sexual context: “Box it hard,” dialogue from a porn video.
Many dream of a day when men and women will have the same physical abilities to be equal opponents in the ring. The day when the fantasy of mixed boxing becomes a reality. But for now it is one major centerpiece of sex and boxing fantasies where women dominate or knockout their male opponents.
Boxing or not boxing, but more entertainment
Grandstanding
Sometimes there is and other times there is no need for any boxing activity. For many the gear is enough. For some it is the ‘pretend’ aspect of a bout which provides a form of aggressive sexual foreplay. For others there is a boxing-like give and take- either full contact (including the head) or body only. And there is always the specialized gut punching- gloved fist punches to the abdomen which can range from friendly competition with set rules to the point of orgasm. For some punching gets the engines going regardless of the context, whether inside or outside the ropes.
I do not stand in judgement of those who appropriate boxing within their sexual appetite.
Vampire diaries – KO – YouTube
I feel that as long as no one is physically hurt in the process, there is no harm.
Alexis vs Nick:
Skill matters more than the sex of the opponent?
Not intending to be a fantasy
Patricio Manuel made his professional debut on a Golden Boy Promotions event on December 8, 2018 in Indio, California, scoring a four-round unanimous decision victory over journeyman Hugo Aguilar (1 win, 1 KO; 8 loss, 2 KO) with all three judges scoring the bout 39–37. Aguilar only knew of Manuel’s transition two days prior to the bout. He stated “For me it’s very respectable… It doesn’t change anything for me. In the ring he wants to win and I want to win too.” After all for a journeyman like Aguilar it is a job for which he does well and is paid well.
Wikipedia & Ed Cheng
Patricio Manuel vs. Hien Huynh 2023
Fantasy in real time
Are we at the dawn by females fighting
the near male of the species?
Personal Observations
Consensual sexual activity occurs along a wide spectrum. Virtually anything can be employed to make it a satisfying experience. I do not stand in judgement of those who appropriate boxing within their sexual appetite. It is well-known that there is a sexual factor which makes a boxing match of interest to spectators (outside the ropes) and boxers (inside the ropes) (see my blog posts Inside the ropes: Sexual arousal during a boxing bout. and Outside the ropes: sexual arousal during a boxing bout). Maybe it’s because I began boxing at a young age (10-years-old), but I never thought of it in a sexual manner. But I am not naïve to know that many “get-off” on the sport, and I found a few sexual partners got really worked-up when they learned I boxed. I feel that as long as no one is physically hurt in the process there is no harm.
Thanks to readers who suggested the captions for the bootlegr images.
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